tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1108511034581742549.post3224109126756338612..comments2023-09-04T07:40:02.102-05:00Comments on Beasley-Wright Family Blog: GuiltRita Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05759909046927353348noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1108511034581742549.post-83574202504521798892009-06-10T23:40:06.554-05:002009-06-10T23:40:06.554-05:00Thank you for your comment Marie. I cry every tim...Thank you for your comment Marie. I cry every time I come back and read it. ((HUGS))Rita Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05759909046927353348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1108511034581742549.post-6769975118500947142009-06-05T09:48:03.525-05:002009-06-05T09:48:03.525-05:00I am not you, but I've lost a little one, too....I am not you, but I've lost a little one, too...I haven't forgotten, but felt horribly guilty when the sadness was less. I still hurt, but there were times where, like you, I forgot to. I was told that you can't stop your mind, soul, or heart from healing anymore then you could stop a broken leg from healing. Even if you keep poking at the wound, it will eventually heal. It doesn't mean you are forgetting, or you love your lost little one less. There will always be a scar, but you are made to heal, so accept that gift, because it's the only way you can go on.<br />I don't want to intrude or preach, but please don't do what I did, and add unearned guilt to grief. Well, yet more unearned guilt. My daily life is almost normal now...but I haven't forgetten, and it will always hurt when I remember.Marienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1108511034581742549.post-18275656571825576272009-06-04T19:58:37.919-05:002009-06-04T19:58:37.919-05:00What a way to end to end my day (yes, I'm head...What a way to end to end my day (yes, I'm headed for bed soon, thanks to a few hours of weedeating up the mountain!) - reading your post with some great news!<br /><br />Realizing that your ONLY focus every minute of every day hasn't been on your loss is a huge step forward!!! It comes as a shock to you because it's such a new feeling(!), but it's a good sign. You can bet Eli is breathing a tiny sigh of relief - he's been working hard :)<br /><br />I'm glad you're looking into teacher certification and agree that you will be a terrific teacher, especially for those who don't get what they need at home.<br /><br />And you have no idea what else is in store for you....<br /><br />Cheers and big hugs from NC -<br /><br />Helen (Lucy)Lucy and Ethelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01034416537494911411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1108511034581742549.post-82753826871577271702009-06-04T19:39:10.616-05:002009-06-04T19:39:10.616-05:00You will be a super fantastic teacher, Rita! It&#...You will be a super fantastic teacher, Rita! It's OKAY not to cry or be sad every day. It's OKAY to move on with your life. You will NEVER forget Eli. He will always be a part of you. You took such wonderful care of him for his whole (too short) life. Now it is time to take care of you.<br /><br />You're doing a great job!<br /><br />~LMurphy's Lawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12443977004927052456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1108511034581742549.post-55263546319231594332009-06-04T19:08:01.242-05:002009-06-04T19:08:01.242-05:00I'm so happy to read what you wrote today. I ...I'm so happy to read what you wrote today. I don't know you but you and Jason's story has touched my life. Although you are struggling with God, I include you in at least one of my daily prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1108511034581742549.post-12836898905733733622009-06-04T17:01:27.640-05:002009-06-04T17:01:27.640-05:00This blog makes my heart happy. I love you and kn...This blog makes my heart happy. I love you and know that you are going to be a wonderful teacher!<br /><br />BrandiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com